Conflict Style Test identifies which of 4 patterns you fall into — The Fighter, The Withdrawer, The Smoother and The Repairer. It has 12 scenario questions, takes about 3 minutes, and your free result is instant: your pattern, what it looks like in daily life, where it comes from, and three moves that work with your instincts instead of against them.
Your conflict style, how it reads from the other side of the table, where it comes from, and three moves that work with your instincts instead of against them.
The $4.9 deep report goes further: A 2,000+ word Deep Report: your style under stress, the exact sentence to use in three real fights, what happens when your style meets each of the other three, and four moves to try in order.
• 12 questions, about 3 minutes.
• Free: instant result, no account.
• Deep Report $4.9 one-time — no subscription.
• For laughs & self-reflection — not a diagnostic instrument.
• Written in-house — how we build tests →
Ready? Answer as you scroll — the first question is right below. No button, no signup, no timer.
Built on the Thomas–Kilmann idea that conflict behaviour runs on two axes — how hard you push for your outcome, and how much you protect the relationship. Original scenarios, original labels. This version has 12 everyday scenarios, so the result reflects what you actually do rather than what you would like to be true. The four patterns it sorts you into are The Fighter, The Withdrawer, The Smoother, The Repairer.
About 3 minutes. 12 questions, one per screen, and the option order is shuffled per question so you cannot fall into a rhythm and answer on autopilot. No account is required to start.
Yes. Your conflict style, how it reads from the other side of the table, where it comes from, and three moves that work with your instincts instead of against them. The Deep Report is the only paid part — one-time payment, no subscription, no auto-renewal.
A 2,000+ word Deep Report: your style under stress, the exact sentence to use in three real fights, what happens when your style meets each of the other three, and four moves to try in order. It is a one-time $4.9, and it stays readable on the same link as your free result.
Same question, different depth. All of it links back to this test.
Go with your first instinct. There are no right answers here — only honest ones.
This takes about a second.
No account needed. Your answers stay in your browser until you finish — then we score them on our server and give you a private result link.