Relationship Burnout Test identifies which of 4 patterns you fall into — Settled, Drifting, Depleted and Rebuilding. It has 12 scenario questions, takes about 3 minutes, and your free result is instant: your pattern, what it looks like in daily life, where it comes from, and three moves that work with your instincts instead of against them.
Your pattern, whether it reads as settled or depleted, and the one signal that tells the two apart.
The $4.9 deep report goes further: A 2,000+ word Deep Report: the four stages of depletion, three conversations that change the direction, and what to do if the answer is “not this”.
• 12 questions, about 3 minutes.
• Free: instant result, no account.
• Deep Report $4.9 one-time — no subscription.
• For laughs & self-reflection — not a diagnostic instrument.
• Written in-house — how we build tests →
Ready? Answer as you scroll — the first question is right below. No button, no signup, no timer.
An original check on the difference between a relationship that has settled and one that is running on empty — built around Gottman’s idea of emotional distance and Pines’ work on burnout in close relationships. This version has 12 everyday scenarios, so the result reflects what you actually do rather than what you would like to be true. The four patterns it sorts you into are Settled, Drifting, Depleted, Rebuilding.
About 3 minutes. 12 questions, one per screen, and the option order is shuffled per question so you cannot fall into a rhythm and answer on autopilot. No account is required to start.
Yes. Your pattern, whether it reads as settled or depleted, and the one signal that tells the two apart. The Deep Report is the only paid part — one-time payment, no subscription, no auto-renewal.
A 2,000+ word Deep Report: the four stages of depletion, three conversations that change the direction, and what to do if the answer is “not this”. It is a one-time $4.9, and it stays readable on the same link as your free result.
Go with your first instinct. There are no right answers here — only honest ones.
This takes about a second.
No account needed. Your answers stay in your browser until you finish — then we score them on our server and give you a private result link.