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Situationships, texting, and what "we should talk" really means.

Dating · 2026-10-31

Still not official

Four months, three weekends away, one shared toothbrush — and still "we’re seeing where it goes".

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Dating · Explainer

How Long Is Too Long in a Situationship?

There’s no universal timeline — but there is a visible difference between mutual and one-sided ambiguity. Here’s how to tell.

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