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Short dispatches from the patterns people write to us about, longer explainers on the same questions, and our own numbers — nothing borrowed, nothing invented. Every piece links to the test that measures it.
Who remembers, who carries, who gets thanked.
Nothing is wrong. You are simply reviewing every conversation from the last six days for the thing you said wrong.
Runs on: Overthinking → Mental load · ExplainerMental load is the invisible work of noticing, remembering, and reminding. The three ways it gets distributed — and how to see which one you’re in.
Runs on: Load & Exit →Reading about a pattern is step one. Seeing yours takes about five minutes.
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